Marriage- A strong Bond

It’s the rare couple that doesn’t run into a few bumps in the road. If you recognize ahead of time, though what those relationship problems might be, you will have a much better chance of getting past them.
Even though every relationship has its ups and down, successful couples have learned how to manage the issues and keep their love life going. Here I am giving you a very useful tip of asking three questions to your Spouse which will help to boost relationship.

 

Ask this three questions once in a month to your Spouse, it will definitely help to strength your marriage and will make the bond between you both More stronger:

 

1: What in our marriage do we need to stop?

What is some behavior or actions that are harming our marriage? Or even, what is something you or your spouse is doing that is not beneficial to the marriage?

2: What in our marriage do we need to start?

What would be good to add? What needs to be started to make our marriage even better?

3: What in our marriage do we need to continue?

What are we doing well? What things are we doing that we can celebrate because of their success?

Try this and see how things changes 🙂

Disclaimer: Points taken from an article I recently read .

An Article on Being Social!!

Today I am really having an urge from some where deep down my heart to write about negativity I see in people around me. There are many people who are in the captivity of negativity which never let them appreciate anything about anybody,  resulting into criticizing everything for the reason only known to them. They start hating people and ultimately ends up people hating them. That’s the way actually their negative mind force them to live their life and I am really clueless most of the times wondering, what they get doing all this?? After all why any one would provoke people to hate them? Why is it so difficult to behave cordially with people now a days.

Human Being is a social animal is what we all are listening since we were a kid then after growing up, why it becomes difficult to digest this simple fact for most of us? Why we are becoming slave of our own negative thoughts? What makes us to do so? Is the problem really residing in others or its in our own self? Why we are getting surrounded by negative thoughts?

 

These are few questions to be really  concerned about, because this negative thoughts if not restricted from growing into us,  one day will result into extinction of the sweet and positive words like love, faith, politeness, kindness, friendship, appreciation etc from human dictionary. How Shameful that would be to live a life like a robot? When thinking about these issues one really nice thought comes into my mind which I had once read some where..

To BE KIND is more important than to be right.

Many Times, What People need is NOT 

A brilliant mind that Speaks

But a SPECIAL HEART that Listens.

The above quotation is absolutely correct,  but how many of us really follow this?  Why it’s so difficult to say few kind words, or to greet people with a smile? I don’t think Smile cost any thing, does they? Then why  people are ignoring this sweet gestures of “Being Social”,where are we heading friends? I dont see any point of us being educationally well qualified when we are forgetting those simple lessons of our childhood.

The purpose of life is not to be selfish all the time. I am not saying don’t think about yourself, all I am saying is not to think only about yourself,  try to be sympathetic with people around you, or if you cannot solve their problems, at least be kind to them. Remember not to criticize also if you cannot appreciate at times.

These simple things in life, will not cost anything to you rather in return you can earn true friends for life time who will be standing besides you no matter what happens. Then what is the problem in bringing change in you?

We all know those who spend their time looking for faults in others, usually make no time to correct their own. So, why to enroll your self among those fault seekers, Why not be a person everybody loves to meet? Think about all these questions I raised in this article and try to find out their answers not through your mind but through your heart .

Hence ending my article on a very important note:

Try to Be like Somebody..

You will always love to meet!!

I hope this read will at least evoke you to think about your behavior towards others & may help you to rectify mistakes you have discovered in yourself while reading it..